So when your little person status reads Sending email to player It means they're going to send you a message. So when they sit on the chair next to the computer wait for 3 seconds then praise them once. After you prias them you should get the message from them. But instead of one message your going to get an other one! Because you praised them they'll do it again. I done this about ten times and once I got a different message from the other one. The first one was about unhappy she is but then the second one was about how happy she was!